so i'm in NY just landed this a.m., cruised over to my friend BJs house. she now lives across the street from my parents! oh and I drove there! no joke, so LA. No i ran out to dunkin donuts and it was raining so i just drove directly to her house. she has 2 kids, it's crazy

so i'm now checking my eharmony profile messages, etc and i asked this guy how adventurous he is actually i asked waht was the most adventurous thing he's done in the past year and here's his answer.

It's drilled into us that a businessperson should always follow a careful plan, and an academic should always be rational. So, most of my spontaneity had be reserved for artistic or private life. I've done some creative designs for Powerpoint presentations or websites that suddenly involved me following some spontaneous idea to its conclusion. Or similar, writing some work (perhaps fiction) I've simply sat down and written almost non-stop until the idea had turned into a complete work. As far as the most spontaneous thing I've ever done, well, I've spontaneously sent people nice gifts on occasion, and that has to rank way up there in the spontaneity-meter.

Umm, did he just say the most spontaneous thing he's done in the past year was A FUCKING POWER POINT PRESENTATION??!?!!?!? this does not seem like the guy for me.

so last wed. night i went out with Kevin from ehar. so he's totally cute,
but he's an actor and ALLL
HE TALKED ABOUT was the entertainment busines.. Like I
even tried to switch topics but he some how was able
to worm his way out of those conversations and get
back into one about ENTERTAINMENT! don't get me wrong
i love the biz, but really, 2.5 hours of talking about
his involvoement in the entertainment industry!?! I'd literally be like let's talk about AIDS babies in AFrica and he'd be like speaking of babies from Africa, what do you think about Brangelina.

also i dont know how many times he said the following
when talking about someone more successful than he is
that he may or may not know "don't get me wrong I dont
begrudge them any of their sucess..." LIKE 8
TIMES!!!!!

anyway, i'm so desperate, i'm going out with him again next week.

Also i gave up sweets for lent which started last week and I'm totally dying! i want candy so bad!!

I talked on the phone last night with...... Kevin from eharmony, within the first 30 secs of the call he told me about this commericial he was in that is now airing. then when i told him what show i last worked on he told me he knew a guy i used to work with and then rattled of all the famous people he knew. Dont name drop to me, seriously, i've been in this business for 10 years, people who live in LA all know famous people, I AM NO IMPRESSED. we see them every day, every where we go, I was walking across the street the other week and My lover hugh laurie was at the stop light. I mean every where we see famous people so REALLY DON'T TRY TO IMPRESS ME WITH THOSE DETAILS.

don't get me wrong i love to gossip about celbs and make fun of them, but i am more likely to be impressed by someone who can do the sunday NY times crossword than can say "cherly hines is one of my contemporaries.."

eharmony

here's what i'm up against on eharmony. here's who i am matching with. this is one guy who I sent the follwoing questions to and these are his answers. I don't want to poison the well, i think you can see why i'm including them in my blog:
my commentary is in itlaics after the answer.



Looking back on your life, of what are you most proud?:

I'm most proud of getting my license as a certified public accountant.

THAT is what you're most proud of? Isn't that like me saying I'm most proud of getting my drivers license? I'm sorry, but there simply has to be something he is more proud of! HAS. TO. BE. IF THIS IS WHAT HE'S MOST PROUD OF I CAN'T DATE HIM.

What is the most adventuresome thing you've done in the past year?:

The most adventuresome thing that I've done in the past year was for work. I had to take a one day trip to Portland leaving LA in the morning, drive across the Columbia River to Vancouver, WA. Then I had to cram a full day's work into about 2 hours. Then it was back to Portland airport to be back in LA in the middle of rush hour. Wish I had a chance to have some fun on the trip though.

FUCK SHIT FUCK. I spontaenously took a trip to italy to stay with my friend to go to the olympics with no tickets, no plans nothing, then after the olympics, I just got on a train by myself and bummed around italy. That is the type of answer I want! going on a business trip is not adventurous! WHAT IS WRONG WITH THESE PEOPLE!!