oh, eharmony

so i joined eharmony a few months ago, say about 2 months and it so far has been pretty slow going and that's kind of annoying. I had one date last week and another date yester. with the same guy, we'll call him john. So i went out with john last weekend and the date was kind of a bore and i was pleading with my eyes for the waitress to bring the check. sometimes getting dinner for a first date is a good idea and sometimes it's most def. not because with dinner you're stuck, with drinks you can chug and drink and be out the door in mere minutes.

anyway, all my friends insisted that i need to give john a 2nd chance, i thought they were crazy seeing as I hated the first date. well hate is a strong word, but i didn't enjoy it that much. but to a certain extent they were right, i mean he did fall in the grey area and the grey area usualy is awarded a 2nd date. so yesterday i grabbed coffee with him b/c i had to meet friends for dinner that night (BTW if you get awarded a coffee date for the 2nd date after a dinner date, you've been seriously down graded to a tropical storm, the relationship is no longer a hurricane i'm afraid to say to any potential daters of mine out there reading this)
and john is so nice, but i'm just not that attracted to him and now ih ave to send an email kind of blowing hiim off, I HATE THAT!! i know he won't be devastated after 2 dates to be let go, but still, i think he thought we were having a grand old time, he just didn't see me checking my cell phone 3 times in the one hour we were together. (p.s. i had a very positive attitude going into the date, i dont want to hear from anyonen saying, maybe you went into it thinking you already didn't like him. blah blah blah. no i was really upbeat and positive and wore a cute coffee outfit!)