so i go to my boxing gym like twice a week and I talk to all the guys there. they're all ex cons, ex druggies, ex homeless, hard core guys, but I find them to kick ass! Anyway, i walk around like I freakin' own the place, which I dont its owned by the most world famous boxing trainer out there, who i also adore. But i'm friendly to everyone and joke around. last week a new guy appeared at the gym, he's from some french african island and I talked to him ONCE and now he wants to go out with me! Ddont get me wrong thats flattering, but I've noticed that the other 20 or so guys I talk to there haven't asked me out, so what's the difference is it because he's a french guy? did I do something like cross some sort of cultural barrier I didn't know existed? and if i did, i'm in my own country, so why should I be penalized for this. Now this guy of course is soooo freakin nice, and so sweet, but also a boxer and i dont want him to beat me when i tell him that i dont know him at all, aside from his name, and dont make it a habit to go out with people I meet and talk to for all of 30 seconds.

But yesterday i noticed that when I was at the speed bag, so was he, (and I'm trying to get a seriously intense workout, so please stop talking to me) and when I was at in the back room in the ring, he's was in the back room doing abs and when I was at the heavy bag, guess who showed up to the heavy bags and is flirting with me. but i'm way too nice to tell this guy to beat it, he knows no one in this city and am i going to be some biatch who is like, sorry dude... there's no time for flirting, just boxing!! I'M HERE TO BOX AT THIS WORLD FAMOUS BOXING GYM!!! This isn't a speed dating event.